He won’t say why he and ex broke up

I am thinking of postponing the wedding because that is how much this is bothering me. What should I do?

I am a 30-year old woman and am going to be married in two months. A week or so ago, I found out that my fiancé had been engaged to another woman over a year ago, until she broke it off. He didn’t say a word of this to me until I confronted him about it, and then said she had a problem because there were some financial issues. When I asked him to elaborate, he said he wasn’t comfortable talking about it because it made him upset. I understand that this is his personal life and that he should be able to share what he wants to, but this is also my life now and I am increasingly worried about what that girl’s reasons were. Am I being unreasonable in asking for a better explanation? I am thinking of postponing the wedding because that is how much this is bothering me. What should I do?
If you are considering postponing the wedding, it’s obvious that this isn’t a minor concern. Your fiancé has a right to not talk about his past if it bothers him, but you’re also justified about this being an exception as it has an impact on your future. You are committing to a lifelong partnership and are entitled to take as much time as you need until you are comfortable with your decision. There may be a perfectly reasonable explanation, but you are entitled to it nonetheless because this is someone you intend to marry. Tell him why you are considering a postponement, so he gets a better idea of how much this is bothering you and why it needs to be addressed.

My friend wants me to break up with my girlfriend because he says she insulted him. She says he’s lying. I am torn between the two.
Why not get the two of them together and ask them to sort it out like adults? This doesn’t have to be a problem if you tell them why their behaviour is upsetting you. 

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