Director Farah Khan Kunder on sleepovers, dressing up, dark jokes and what makes her BFF a genuine ‘heroine’
Farah Khan with Sania Mirza
The first thing that comes to my mind when I think of Sania, is bestfriend. She is the most grounded and most down-to-earth person I have met, other than myself. I think we get along, because she is normal. I need to go outside of our friendship to realise what a big star she is. When we are together, we are two normal girl friends, talking about our kids, or just lying in bed and watching Bigg Boss. It’s a very normal friendship—when I see other people’s reactions to her, is when I realise that she is a legend in the sports history of our country. Who had heard of women’s tennis in our country before her? She is a genuine star who has just done what she has done, without waving the flag of feminism or using the woman card.
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We get along because we have this wicked sense of humour—we can get really dark. We find humour in most things.
She is actually also a very girly girl. She likes getting dressed up—I tell her she is a heroine without being a heroine. I have seen her in a nightie at home, without makeup, when we do sleepovers. But she also likes to dress up—it’s a dichotomy for me.
This is not the end for her; she is multifaceted. But for a sportsperson, this is a landmark. She also had a baby, and within six months, she played again. That kind of dedication I am amazed at, because when we are together, it’s all fun and games. Her will power amazes me.