5 signs of love bombing
Aakanksha Ahire
Rapid progression of the relationship
The start of the relationship feels like a whirlwind. There is a talk of a future together, talks of exclusivity and commitment, and constant contact
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Manipulation
Love bombing is full of lies, gaslighting, guilt-tripping and shaming. You are made to feel bad for having a voice or autonomy
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Feels like you are being chased
It feels like a hunt as the love bomber is constantly hunting for your time and attention. They pursue you relentlessly and start acting jealous and possessive
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You try to justify their actions
You see yourself compromising on your values and making excuses for their bad behaviour and abuse
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Idealisation
Love bombers have a special way of making you feel like you are in a perfect relationship by making ideal gestures, and it’s hard not to fall for it
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