If she hasn’t said anything negative about you, and your girlfriend says she likes you, why unnecessarily create imaginary scenarios in your head
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A few days ago, my boyfriend told me that he wanted us to take things slowly. I didn’t understand what he meant because we have only been together for about six months now, but he said he was beginning to feel a little stifled and asked me not to insist on meeting as often as we do. We only meet on weekends because we both work on weekdays, and I have only asked him to meet me on a weekday once because it was my best friend’s birthday party. I was hurt by his comments but didn’t say anything because I didn’t want to be pushy. How do I tell him that he is being unreasonable? Meeting once a week is not asking for too much attention, and if he wants us to meet just once or two times a month, how is this a relationship? How will we get to know each other better by just chatting on WhatsApp?
You’re right to be confused and upset about this, because the whole purpose of a relationship is to meet in person. If he isn’t interested in this or wants to cut down on it when you aren’t being unreasonable, it’s obvious that you have different ideas of what this relationship is meant to be. I suggest you address this as quickly as possible when you next meet and talk about what you both expect from each other. If there is a significant discrepancy, the sooner you have it out in the open, the easier it will be for you both to look at what the future holds.
My girlfriend asked me to meet her mother while they were shopping, but her mother didn’t say a word after responding to my greeting. My girlfriend says her mother liked me, but I don’t know if that’s true. Should I be worried?
If she hasn’t said anything negative about you, and your girlfriend says she likes you, why unnecessarily create imaginary scenarios in your head?
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