A few months ago, I met this guy on a bus. We got talking and it was an instant attraction. I totally fell for him. We didn't exchange numbers and added each other on Facebook
Dear Diana,
A few months ago, I met this guy on a bus. We got talking and it was an instant attraction. I totally fell for him. We didn't exchange numbers and added each other on Facebook. I then found out he had a girlfriend. I forgot all about him after seeing that he was in a relationship but a few weeks later, we started speaking a lot. We exchanged numbers and we had some flirty chats but I always pointed out that he had a girlfriend. Then, one day, we started texting all day every day for two weeks and started to like each other. There was much chemistry between us and I began to really like him and he says he felt the same. He told me he would end things with his girlfriend and when I went on a five-day holiday, he says he missed speaking to me. I went to his house on Sunday and it was amazing and we slept together. After that, he has not been the same. He says he likes me but he has been really weird. He sometimes ignores my texts and whenever I mention Sunday, he changes the subject. He's six years older than me. Should I just forget about him?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
If you are willing to sleep with a guy on the first date, he won't respect you. If you're willing to be with a guy who will dump his girlfriend just to be with you, he won't respect you. If he doesn't respect you, he won't bother to make the sex good for you, too. Additionally, if a guy is willing to dump a girl to be with you, why wouldn't he be willing to treat you the same way? Basically, even an otherwise decent guy wouldn't think much of you after that, and he certainly doesn't sound like he was decent to begin with. Consider it a learning experience. Don't put out too early, and no matter how attracted you are, avoid attached guys completely.
He dictates how I should dress
Dear Diana,
We've been married a year and for as long as I have known him, my husband has been concerned with the way I dress. I'm not allowed to wear short dresses or hot pants or low cleavage-showing tops. I have a very good figure for my age and want to show it off. What should I do? Each time I ask what issues he has, he says I'm hot but he doesn't want other men looking at me.
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Name withheld
Dear Friend,
What you wear is no one else's business but your own concern. You are an adult and can wear what ever you like. Clearly you are very proud of the fact that you have retained your figure. In fact it may be that your husband was first attracted to you. However, I'd like to add that looking 'hot' can be more effective if it is done with subtle touches, rather than blatant advertising of your assets, no matter what your age.
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