I find myself in am extremely strange situation. I am increasingly being drawn towards my best friend's husband! I am also married
Dear Diana,
I find myself in am extremely strange situation. I am increasingly being drawn towards my best friend's husband! I am also married. As much as I try to contain these feelings, I cannot. I just don't know what to do. I keep on chatting with him throughout the day. And he floods my inbox with mails throughout the day. He has become an obsession for me. These feelings developed after we went for a holiday together to Maldives two months ago. His wife and my hubby were not keen about indulging in water sports, so I used to accompany him. We began flirting and now we are in love. He tells me that he would never do anything that would destroy the friendship. What does he mean and what do I do?u00a0
- Name withheld on request
Illustration/Satish Acharya
Dear Friend,
He is your best friend's hubby, you are ruining your life, his life, and your husband's life. Have you thought about it? How would you face your buddy when she realises what you and her hubby have been up to? You need to leave him alone and open up communications with your husband and find out where your intimacy has gone. A relationship with your pal's hubby will only do more harm than good. It began with harmless flirtation but you seem to have let yourself go. It is easy to say that the circumstances were such and that one thing led to another. But both of you are married and need to know where to draw the line. You have to end this relationship, if you want peace in life. Looks like he just wants to have a good time with you, no wonder he says he will never do anything to break the friendship between you and youru00a0 pal. Wake up girl and get going with your life.
It's love at first sight
Dear Diana,
I like this boy at my coaching class. We are both CA students. I have had this feeling for him ever since I first saw him in the class. I just want to go and tell him. But I don't have the courage. What do I do?u00a0
- Jalpa
Dear Jalpa,
My dear girl, first get to know him and then tell him whatever you want. He is just a classmate at present, right? Begin with a casual hi, befriend him, hang out with him in a group and then decide. Don't be in a rush, be patient.
Where is my guy?
Dear Diana,
I'm 23 years old and can't seem to find any guy. For me, all of them are buddies or brothers. Due to which I have no boyfriend in my life like my other friends do. Why do I develop such brotherly or buddy feelings in my guy friends? Will I ever find my guy?
-u00a0Perin
Dear Perin,
Good heavens, you are only 23 so why this desperate manhunt? May be the guys you have come across so far are only the kinds that evoke brotherly feelings or are buddy material. There is no hurry, or a race, remember love happens. Keep going, I am sure you will find a guy you will fall in love with ufffd someone who you will love to be with, someone who will charm you.
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