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When I hear Indian music, I automatically start moving: Vietnam dancer MT Pop

If you like scrolling through social media, chances are you might have seen a video of a dancer moving to the beats of ‘Mundian tu bachke rahi’ on the battle floor, with the crowd completely mesmerised. This dancer is MT Pop, the winner of the Red Bull Dance Your Style World Finals 2024, which was held in Mumbai earlier this month. The viral video, with 21.1 million views on Instagram, is just a glimpse of many impromptu yet exemplary performances delivered by dancers from across the world at this street dance competition.           View this post on Instagram                       A post shared by Red Bull Dance (@redbulldance) MT Pop, who hails from Vietnam, competed against France’s hip-hop dancer Rubix in the final round. Expressing his emotions on clinching the trophy, the world champion told mid-day.com, “I feel really happy to be here, to share my dance with everyone. It’s not easy and it’s a dream for a lot of dancers to be on this stage.” His love and passion for dance shine through in his conversation and movement alike. “Dance means a lot to me. Many people say ‘It’s just dance’, but for me, it’s my life, my friend,” he excitedly remarked. “Every time I feel low or stressed, dance is there for me. When I listen to music and move, I can take all the bad energy out and feel myself healing,” he added. One characteristic that stands out in MT Pop is his connection with his roots and the happiness of representing his country on a global stage. “We have a lot of dancers in Vietnam and we are hungry for knowledge and learning. I am here for all of them because I want to show that if I can do it, they can do it too!” Talking about his experience in the city, he says, “Mumbai is amazing. I like the culture here. When I hear Indian music, it automatically makes me move. It is exciting and challenging at the same time. I just enjoy it.” One message he wants to share with all aspiring dancers is, “Dream it, wish it, do it!” Representing India Indian dancers are claiming their place on the global stage, a fact that shines through as they proudly represent the country in international competitions. Two artistes from India showcased their skills at the Dance Your Style World Finals – T and Saumya Kamble. T, who is from Darjeeling, won the National Finals and went on to represent the country in the World Finals. The dancer, whose stage name is inspired by a cartoon character, won everyone’s hearts with his talent and respect for his opponent on the stage. Sharing the story behind his name, he said, “I used to watch Tom & Jerry. Jerry always used to tease Tom but he didn’t give up. I found inspiration in that and kept my name Tom, which then became T.” What is it that he doesn’t want to give up on? Dance, one would assume, given how deeply connected he is with the art form. “I left home at the age of 15. It has only been me and my dance since then. Some things can’t be expressed. You just need to feel it. That’s what dance is to me,” he shared. Sharing his plans, T stated, “I’ll just keep going. There’s no trick to success. I am going to experience the journey, see what it is that I can do. I’ll just represent myself and my dance.” Also Read: How Garba crosses boundaries and unites the world The other Indian artiste, who was a wildcard entry into the World Finals, became a known name in the country when she won India’s Best Dancer Season 2. Saumya Kamble, at the age of 19, gave a tough competition to the street dance veterans. Expressing her gratitude for this opportunity, she stated, “Dance is everything for me. It’s my heartbeat. I had so much fun here. The crowd, the stage, the people I was battling with – everything was amazing.” If there’s one word she would use to describe her style, it’s “flow”, something she also strongly believes in. “I want to go with the flow. God will give me the best. But I’ll start battling more,” she concludes.  

22 November,2024 02:40 PM IST | Mumbai | Raaina Jain
Diljit Dosanjh performed in Jaipur on November 3 (Pic: Instagram/@diljitdosanjh)

Diljit Dosanjh Mumbai concert tickets to go live today: Know all details

After a long wait, the date of Diljit Dosanjh’s Mumbai concert was finally announced on Wednesday. The show, which is a part of his Dil-Luminati India Tour 2024, will take place in the city on December 19. Dosanjh started the tour in India with a packed stadium in Delhi, followed by performances in Jaipur, Hyderabad and Ahmedabad. His Mumbai concert will be the penultimate show of the tour, before he performs the grand finale in Guwahati on December 29. How to book tickets for Diljit Dosanjh Mumbai concert? The venue for Dosanjh’s Mumbai concert is yet to be announced. However, the tickets for the show go live on Friday, November 22 on Zomato. The general sale of tickets will start at 5:00 PM. However, HSBC cardholders have a special advantage! There’s a pre-sale from 2:00 PM to 5:00 PM exclusively for those who have HSBC cards. Diljit Dosanjh Mumbai concert ticket prices According to the website, there are four categories of tickets. Silver – Rs. 4999 Gold – Rs. 11,999 HSBC Star Struck Fan Pit – Rs. 21,999 Lounge – Rs. 60,000 If all his other shows are anything to go by, the Mumbai concert tickets are also expected to be sold out within minutes. Also Read: 'Yeh pagdi hamari shaan hai': Diljit Dosanjh expresses love for country at Dil-Luminati Jaipur concert About Dil-Luminati Tour As a part of his Dil-Luminati Tour, Dosanjh has performed overseas in North America, Europe, Australia, and New Zealand, and has now returned to India for a 10-city tour across Hyderabad, Ahmedabad, Lucknow, Pune, Kolkata, and more, before concluding with a grand finale in Guwahati on December 29. Mumbai was not included in the initial list of cities for the tour, and was later added due to the high demand.

22 November,2024 01:14 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondent
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Celebrating the guilty pleasures of TV

World Television Day is observed annually on November 21 to highlight the ever-expanding influence of television across the globe. From entertaining and informing to inspiring and shaping public opinion, the content is evolving. While we have gained access to many critically acclaimed shows and movies across genres and languages, audiences continue to turn to television to seek comfort, and escapist entertainment through guilty pleasure television, where we indulge in the addictive and melodramatic. From the sensationalism of reality TV to the over-the-top dramatic antics of cringe dramas, there is an endless stream of shows that have audiences hooked. On World Television Day, fans of the medium disclose their guilty pleasures and offer us a peep into their comfort shows.  It may not be perfect, but it takes a bold shot at normalising topics that are often considered ‘taboo’ “My all-time guilty pleasure? It has to be ‘Four More Shots Please!’ The show offers a glimpse into the lives and daily struggles of four women who break norms, navigate life’s transitions, and embrace all the messy, unpredictable parts of life,” says popular entertainment, lifestyle, and dance creator Zaid Darbar. ‘Four More Shots Please!’ follows four fiercely independent women, living in Mumbai, who bond over their shared experiences, aspirations, and the complexities of modern womanhood. Married to actress Gauahar Khan, Darbar also lives in Mumbai and finds inspiration in the lives of the four lead characters. He reveals, “I love how the show tackles feminist themes in a way that feels fresh and genuine. It dives into real issues and authentic emotions. Watching Damini, Umang, Anjana, and Siddhi support each other through thick and thin—whether it's love, career challenges, or motherhood—is both inspiring and real. There’s something special about seeing such strong, supportive friendships at the centre of the story.”  While ‘Four More Shots Please’ has been praised for its bold portrayal of modern Indian women, it has also faced criticism for its focus on the lives of affluent, urban women, often perceived as being disconnected from the realities of most Indians. What makes it his guilty pleasure? “Four More Shots Please’ is a show to watch with an open heart. While some storylines come from a privileged perspective, it's the genuine emotions that matter, it’s part of what makes it relatable and engaging. The show bravely addresses many topics like career setbacks, body image struggles, and feelings of self-doubt—even if it sometimes focusses on what we deem to be first-world problems. It may not be perfect, but it takes a bold shot at normalising topics that are often considered ‘taboo’—from sexuality to independence—in a way that makes you reflect, laugh, and maybe even text your friends to say, we need a night out—just us,” shares the 29-year-old.   These performances could seem cringe-worthy to some viewers, but each audition brought something fresh and interesting, making it hard to look away “Watching old ‘Roadies’ auditions is my guilty pleasure, where each participant is a unique character,” admits Gunjan Saini. The New Delhi native is an actor, writer, lyricist, and jingle writer who continues to be entertained by the challenges posed by judges Raghu and Rajiv to the contestants. Roadies, a long-running reality show, tests contestants' physical and mental endurance through rigorous challenges. The show is known for its high entertainment value through dramatic twists and intense competition.  Saini shares, “These auditions are pure entertainment. Their unique way of testing the patience and resilience of participants is fascinating, often pushing them to their limits in unforgettable ways. Each audition showcased participants as distinct characters, with their attempts to prove they had what it took to be a ‘Roadie’ ranging from bold to downright hilarious. Some contestants would reenact iconic Bollywood scenes with over-the-top drama, while others would perform athletic feats, trying to showcase a mix of physical strength and personality. These performances could seem cringe-worthy to some viewers, but each audition brought something fresh and interesting, making it hard to look away.”  The has often faced criticism for being scripted, and showcasing a one-dimensional portrayal of the contestants and their experiences. “One audition that stands out was a girl claiming to be a UPSC aspirant, a serious credential, yet when Raghu and Rajiv asked her the name of India’s Prime Minister, she froze, completely lost. Moments like these make you wonder if some of it might be scripted, but the unpredictability keeps it engaging. Every participant brought a story, a quirky ambition, or a wild confidence, making each episode a unique experience—unfiltered, intense, and sometimes unintentionally funny. Watching these old auditions remains an oddly fascinating, if guilty, pleasure,” she recalls.  Saini can hardly contain her laughter while she recalls a line on the show, that has permeated her life, “One of the most memorable parts for me was when Raghu Ram would suddenly shout, ‘Tu Roadie banega?’ with his intense expression and deadpan delivery. It’s become a running joke among my friends and me; whenever one of us tries to back out of plans, someone inevitably drops that line, and we all burst into laughter. The humour lies not just in the phrase itself but in the way, Raghu would keep a perfectly straight face while saying it, which made the challenge sound both intimidating and ridiculous That simple line has become a catchphrase among me and my friends.”  The high street fashion is to die for! What’s your number one comfort watch? “Gossip Girl. I can watch it on repeat, any number of times. I think I must be on my 8th or 9th rerun of the show right now,” says beauty creator Ruchika Methwani. Set in Manhattan, the cult American teen drama series follows the lives of elite teenagers, and features an anonymous blogger who exposes their secrets. “I love it because it's the absolute perfect mix of scandal, gossip, and fashion. The drama in the show manages to excite me and get me hooked every single time. Even though the show is based on the lives of teenagers, the drama in a week of their lives is more than I, as a 27-year-old have collectively had all my life,” reveals Methwani.  The show is particularly known for its glamour and high fashion which continue to draw in viewers from across the globe. “The high street fashion is to die for! The show's stunning fashion and glamorous aesthetic have inspired my style. However, I believe the mark of a good show is a gripping love story, and what keeps me truly hooked is the romantic tension between the lead couples. The tumultuous yet passionate relationship between Blair and Chuck is very comforting to me. Their transformation from enemies to lovers is a classic trope, executed flawlessly. Blair's strong, independent character and iconic lines like ‘I'm not a stop along the way, I'm a destination!’ have inspired me,” she shares.  Over the years, Gossip Girl has become a cultural phenomenon, spawning a reboot and multiple international remakes. However, the show's unrealistic portrayal and glamorisation of wealth have been termed excessive, as it perpetuated harmful stereotypes about wealth, beauty, and social status. Methwani states, “It's a show that's heavy enough to not let you sleep and still light enough to enjoy it every single day. The intense friendships and rivalries between Blair and Serena, especially during moments like the university application drama, are incredibly relatable. It highlights the complexities of female friendships, where love and competition can coexist. Despite their conflicts, their unwavering bond reminds us of the enduring power of friendship.”   It’s almost like watching a game of musical chairs, but instead of chairs, it is romantic interests, and the music never really stops Entertainment creator Ayushi Rai calls ‘Too Hot to Handle’ her all-time favourite guilty show.  The British reality show brings together a host of attractive singles to form romantic connections, but they must abstain from any physical intimacy. What ensues is the contestants struggling to navigate awkward encounters, and temptation while strategizing to win. “It’s like the international version of ‘Splitsvilla’ but even crazier. It’s hilarious because everyone struggles to follow the rules, and the drama is just over the top. I can’t stop watching every time a new season comes out,” she confesses.  While ‘Too Hot to Handle’ continues to be a popular choice for those seeking escapist entertainment, the show has received flak for heavily edited and scripted drama, and shallow relationships. “It's the cheesy lines and the ridiculous characters. They all talk about finding ‘deep connections’ and ‘true love’, but their actions don’t match their words at all. It’s funny watching them say they’re looking for something real while they flirt with every new person who shows up. The whole show is full of these buzzwords about love, but it’s obvious they’re just there for the fun. It’s cringy but in the best way, and I love every minute of it,” shares the Mumbai resident.  Rai poses that the superficiality of the over-dramatic show is what makes it enjoyable, “The most entertaining moments are when they try to convince the audience (and maybe themselves) that they've found a "genuine connection Every episode features at least one scene where someone dramatically professes their feelings, only for their affections to shift the second a new, more attractive cast member shows up. It’s almost like watching a game of musical chairs, but instead of chairs, it's romantic interests, and the music never really stops. The rapid emotional U-turns and the sheer level of superficiality make it endlessly entertaining. I’ve watched all three seasons so far, and at this point, I see it as a comedy show disguised as a dating reality series. It’s a masterclass in what not to do in a relationship, and I can't help but laugh every time they try to take themselves seriously.”

21 November,2024 06:28 PM IST | Mumbai | Maitrai Agarwal
Kumar will be performing at the NCPA in Mumbai on November 21. Photo Courtesy: Special Arrangement

‘If people find jokes at comedy shows offensive, they shouldn’t even come'

If your social media feed is filled with comedy clips, you are bound to chance upon Singaporean comedian Kumarason Chinnadurai, popularly known as Kumar, with his funny jokes that open you to a whole world of being in Singapore. While being hilarious is natural, it is his ability to tell risque jokes unabashedly that makes the Singaporean, who has roots in Chennai, absolutely unique, while still retaining the essence of his set. The best part is that everything fans are going to see is going to be new because he hasn’t been to India for a long time.  In India, and more particularly Mumbai this November, the comedian will be performing at NCPA on November 21 as a part of his ‘Kumarsutra India’ tour.  Incidentally, Kumar, whose career in comedy and live entertainment started in 1992, will be visiting India for the first time in over 20 years; the fact that it is a performance, makes it even better but not without being bolder than he was almost 30 years ago. “My father strictly and religiously disconnected me with India. Coming to India is like going back to motherland, which it is good to go back to because you get to touch base without your own mother.” It is also why Kumar adds, “People can expect a lot of raunchy and relatable stuff and just come with an open mind.” However, telling controversial jokes comes with their own sets of challenges because while many may like it, there are quite a few who may find it hurtful or offensive. So, what does he say to such people? In typical fashion, Kumar shares, “If people find jokes at comedy shows offensive, they shouldn’t even come because we all laugh together and laugh at each other. If you cannot handle that, then stay at home and watch Netflix and Amazon Prime. Using an interesting mix of risque jokes, cross-dressing, along with song and dance on stage, Kumar has been entertaining audiences the world over. With such a delightful mix of expecting something new every time, the formula for which has been simple for the comedian. Kumar explains, “You have to laugh at yourself first and then you can laugh at others. You don’t laugh at the expense of others because it is really not nice.”  In the same amount of time, it is not only the Singaporean who has evolved as a comedian but also the people of Singapore who have learned to enjoy comedy now more than before. The comedian adds, “Comedy is evolving a lot in Singapore. People want to go for comedy shows more because everyone wants to laugh because of depression, and everyone has mental health issues, getting out of Covid and even work pressure. People want a good laugh.” Beyond comedy, Kumar has also been cross-dressing for a very long time, and even came out to the world as gay, a little over a decade ago. While cross-dressing isn’t new, and neither is coming out, for at least some people, around the world, India has had a tumultuous relationship with the LGBTQIA+ but even that has slowly improved over the last decade if not more. It is no different around the world. Being a part of the entertainment industry, cross-dressing has also seen an evolution, which Kumar believes has been seen around the world. He explains, “I don’t know if cross-dressing is more acceptable now, but I think cross-dressing is more tolerated now. Every other family has a gay person or person from the LGBTQIA+ community. The tolerance level now is higher, so people really like it. People like to watch a man in a dress especially if you are really beautiful. So, I think it is more accepted now and that is why it is not an issue anymore.”  Dressed in all kinds of shimmering gold or pink hues among other colours, it is hard to believe that the Indian-origin comedian doesn’t choose his costumes, but it seems like Kumar is naturally fashionable, which means that anything picked up looks good. Kumar shares, “I don’t have a personal costume because I wear whatever is available. Initially, when my big shows used to happen, I used to do it but for my standup comedy shows, I just pick anything from my wardrobe – whatever is available – short dress or long dress.”   While cross-dressing is still acceptable, it is often difficult for many entertainers to tell their fans for the fear of losing the latter or simply facing backlash. With that in mind, Kumar believes coming out depends on what career you are in. The comedian adds, “I feel that if you are in the corporate world, people don’t want to come out because they are scared of discrimination and remarks given to them. For me, since I am in standup, I believe people need to know because I am tired of people asking me – are you married? or do you have children? I have dogs, which is good enough for me.”  It is simply because Kumar started his career in 1992. At the time, the comedian says it would have been difficult to come out. “Even my family didn’t know. My father thought I was a prostitute, and it was tough coming out. Now, I think it is easier to come out because it is well-accepted, and everybody is well-travelled, and everything is on social media. The world now knows that people are creative, and you can benefit from them,” the comedian concludes. While preparing to not only make people laugh in India, he is also eager to visit his roots in Chennai after his Mumbai or Delhi show, and most of all enjoy vegetarian food here, which the comedian believes is delicious.  When: November 21Where: Tata Theatre, NCPAPrice: Rs 1,500 onwardsTickets: bookmyshow.com

21 November,2024 05:40 PM IST | Mumbai | Nascimento Pinto
 The objective of the IRCTC is to provide an accessible, comfortable and enriching experience for all visitors. Photo Courtesy: Mid-day file pic

Mahakumbh 2025: IRCTC to set up tent city at Prayagraj

The Indian Railway Catering and Tourism Corporation Limited is all set to develop a tent city at Prayagraj coinciding with next year's Mahakumbh Mela.Sanjay Kumar Jain, Chairman and Managing Director of IRCTC, said the 'Maha Kumbh Gram' will be a transformative addition to the pilgrimage and tourism landscape combining luxury accommodation and a cultural immersive experience in a way that celebrates India's spiritual diversity."Our objective is to provide an accessible, comfortable and enriching experience for all visitors", Jain said in a statement.The company, a public sector undertaking of the Railway Ministry, said it has expertise in mass-scale pilgrimage tourism and extensive hospitality services over a nationwide rail network with domain experience of successfully managing 6.5 lakh plus customers to date on the Aastha and Bharat Gaurav Trains."IRCTC is uniquely positioned to make Kumbh Gram an unparalleled spiritual and cultural destination," the company said.It added, "The Mahakumbh Gram Tent City shall be patronised through direct bookings as well as IRCTC Tourists availing the Rail Tour Packages, Bharat Gaurav Trains etc."Rahul Himalian, director (Tourism & Marketing), IRCTC said, "Maha Kumbh Gram Tent City at Prayagraj will offer deluxe and premium camps equipped with modern amenities to ensure a high level of comfort for guests, providing a premium experience amidst the spiritual ambience of Mahakumbh 2025"."The tariff begins at Rs 6,000 plus applicable taxes per person per night on double occupancy, including breakfast," the statement said.For more information or to book a stay, one can visit irctctourism.com or contact customer support at 1800110139, it said.  This story has been sourced from a third party syndicated feed, agencies. Mid-day accepts no responsibility or liability for its dependability, trustworthiness, reliability and data of the text. Mid-day management/mid-day.com reserves the sole right to alter, delete or remove (without notice) the content in its absolute discretion for any reason whatsoever.

21 November,2024 09:50 AM IST | New Delhi | IANS
Mohini and Mark shared the news with their followers via a joint post on Instagram. Photo Courtesy: Mid-day file pic

After AR Rahman, his bassist Mohini Dey announces separation from husband

After the Grammy and Oscar-winning music composer A. R. Rahman and his wife Saira Banu announced their separation now bassist Mohini Dey, who works with Rahman, also confirmed her separation from her husband Mark Hartsuch. Mohini and Mark shared the news with their followers via a joint post on Instagram. They wrote, “Dear friends, family, fans, and followers, With a heavy heart, Mark and I announce that we have separated. First, as a commitment to our friends and family, this is a mutual understanding between us. While we remain great friends, we both have decided that we want different things in life and separation through mutual agreement was the best way to proceed”. They further mentioned, “We will still be working on several projects together including MaMoGi and Mohini Dey groups. We have always prided ourselves on working well together and that will not be stopping any time soon :) The big thing we want to wish is love to everyone out there in the world. We appreciate your support in all of the ways you have given it to us. Please honor the decision we have made by being positive towards us at this time and respecting our privacy. We would appreciate no judgements”.           View this post on Instagram                       A post shared by Mohini Dey (@dey_bass) Mohini and Rahman have worked together in over 80 shows. On Tuesday, Saira made the statement of divorce through her lawyer. She has cited emotional strain as the cause behind the divorce. The strain has led to an insurmountable gap between the couple. Saira's lawyer Vandana Shah has released an official statement with regards to the couple's decision to separate. The statement read, “After many years of marriage, Mrs Saira has made the difficult decision to separate from her husband AR Rahman. This decision comes after significant emotional strain in their relationship. Despite their deep love for each other, the couple has found that the tensions and difficulties have created an insurmountable gap between them, one that neither party feels able to bridge at this time”. This story has been sourced from a third party syndicated feed, agencies. Mid-day accepts no responsibility or liability for its dependability, trustworthiness, reliability and data of the text. Mid-day management/mid-day.com reserves the sole right to alter, delete or remove (without notice) the content in its absolute discretion for any reason whatsoever.

21 November,2024 09:25 AM IST | Mumbai | IANS
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International Men's Day: Men, social media and the body image debate

In today’s digital era, social media platforms like Instagram, Facebook have become an integral part of everyone’s daily life, especially among younger men, with studies showing that males in the 18-34 age group are more active on social media as compared to older men. In India, as of early 2024, 68.6 per cent of social media users were male, highlighting a significant penetration rate among men in the country, as per Data Reportal’s Digital 2024 report. While social media offers many benefits, such as staying connected, it also plays a significant role in shaping body image perceptions, many times in harmful ways. Men are under more pressure to meet these norms as a result of fitness culture, influencers, and celebrities who display idealised images of the male body. Poor body image is often associated with unhealthy behaviours that lead to various issues, like eating disorders. Studies show that around one-third of people who deal with eating disorders are male, although this number is likely underreported, as many men experiencing eating disorders delay or avoid seeking help. (Better Health, 2023) To study how social media affects the body image of men, mid-day.com spoke to two individuals- Kevin (24), and Aryan (17), along with mental health professionals Dr Kedar Tilwe, Consultant Psychiatrist, Fortis Hiranandani Hospital, Vashi and Dr Pallavi Joshi, Consultant Psychiatrist, Manipal Hospital Varthur Road, who shared their insights on this growing issue. Social media usage and comparison to others Kevin and Aryan are both active social media users, but their experiences differ in how they engage with the platforms. Kevin, who uses “Instagram, LinkedIn, and WhatsApp” regularly, notes that while he does not feel pressured by social media, instead “It gives me motivation to workout and follow a routine for a healthy lifestyle.” On the other hand, Aryan, who spends significant time on Instagram, admits to comparing his body to others: “I do compare my body to others, and in some cases it motivates me (e.g., I see a guy becoming fitter, and that motivates me to become fitter as well), and in some cases it negatively affects me (e.g., I feel like, Why can’t I look like that?)" Dr Kedar and Dr Pallavi emphasise that such comparisons are common, particularly among teenagers. Dr Kedar explains that “teenagers are more impressionable” and often lack the life experience to critically assess the content they consume. He adds, “They have a crisis of identity versus role confusion going on. And they look to someone to try and role model with because of this they are extremely susceptible to social media unlike adults who will have some experience and filters about how they perceive the message.” The pressure to look a certain way Aryan acknowledges the subtle pressure to look a certain way influenced by the images he sees on social media. “There is a certain pressure to dress a certain way, to look a certain way, to be strong and athletic and muscular and all that. I don’t find it very pressurising though, but it’s there.” For Kevin, however, this pressure doesn’t manifest in the same way. He remains confident in his body and finds that social media doesn't affect his self-image. “Definitely not,” he says. Both experts agree that social media has raised expectations when it comes to body image, particularly for younger men. Dr Pallavi notes, “The ideal body has become an obsession,” referring to how influencers and celebrities portray bodies that are often unattainable for the average person. This has led to a cycle of comparison, anxiety, and, in some cases, harmful behaviours such as extreme dieting or overexercising. Realistic body standards When asked about whether the body standards seen on social media are realistic, Kevin acknowledges that while many portray authentic bodies, some influencers use steroids or other enhancements. He points out, “Most of them are real. But there are many that use steroids.” Aryan, on the other hand, says, “The majority of influencers I’ve seen are portraying unrealistic body standards, but there are a few who don’t do so.” Dr Kedar points out that many of the body types shown by influencers are often impossible to maintain for those with regular, non-celebrity lifestyles. He explains, “The perfect body has become an obsession for many people. This stems from the ideal body image portrayed by influencers, which is often impossible to routinely maintain due to day-to-day responsibilities. It leads to body image issues, as most people with normal lives cannot dedicate the same level of time, care, and grooming. The lifestyles of celebrities and influencers involve resources that aren't accessible to everyone, causing unrealistic comparisons.” The psychological impact of social media on body image Both Kevin and Aryan express how social media impacts their body image, but in different ways. For Aryan, the negative effects can be seen when he encounters fat-shaming comments online. “Since I’m a bit fat, when I see people fat shaming in the comments, it makes me a bit self-conscious.” Kevin, in contrast, has not faced such negativity and does not allow social media to affect his perception of his body. He says, “Haven’t faced that issue.” Dr Kedar explains that body image issues stemming from social media use can have severe psychological consequences, such as anxiety, depression, and body dysmorphia. He cautions, “For men, there's an obsession with achieving the perfect body, whether it's six-pack abs or other ideal body types promoted by influencers. The need for grooming has increased, leading many to take drastic steps to conform to these standards. Men who can't meet these expectations often experience anxiety, stress, and even depressive features. Some may make unrealistic decisions, which result in body image disturbances.” The role of social media in shaping self-perception When it comes to how they present themselves on social media, both Kevin and Aryan see their profiles as real versions of themselves. Kevin admits, “Version of myself,” as he presents a version of himself he wants others to see, while Aryan believes that social media generally reflects a filtered version of a person’s life. “I believe your social media presence shows a version of yourself that you want others to see,” he says. This distinction highlights a broader societal trend, as Dr. Pallavi says, “Social media has amplified the idea that an ideal male body must be muscular and exceptionally fit,” she says. “This message communicates that to be attractive or socially appealing, men must adhere to these rigid standards. Unlike previous generations, men now face constant exposure to these images, leading them to internalise unrealistic ideals of body image.” The importance of mental health awareness and support Aryan feels that social media platforms don’t do enough to promote mental health awareness when it comes to body image. While he acknowledges the existence of influencers who talk about body positivity and health in a constructive manner, he believes more could be done. “Not enough. They do promote mental awareness, but more can be done. I'm glad to have found influencers and people who talk about the body and health in a good and beneficial manner.” Kevin, however, feels that men typically don’t face body image issues unless there are underlying health concerns, such as illness, and that open discussions about body image are not as common among men. “Most of the men don't face any such issue unless people with some sickness.” He also notes, “I discuss it openly with my boys, but there is nothing to get insecure about. We help each other and build each other. Parents are least interested in these topics. Men love challenges, and hence, instead of getting worried, they work on it.” Dr Kedar and Dr Pallavi agree that promoting mental health awareness is crucial, particularly for young men who are still developing their self-esteem. Dr Kedar says, "Parents should support their children and avoid being the primary source of body shaming. Frequent reassurances of love and acceptance are vital. Teaching critical thinking about social media content helps children analyse and question what they see. It’s important to provide a safe space for them to express their concerns or seek help. This could be with parents, teachers, or mental health professionals. Additionally, encouraging access to authentic and well-researched resources can expand their understanding and provide healthier alternatives." Dr Pallavi also notes that mental health professionals, parents, and educators should be proactive in helping young boys navigate social media content. “It’s important to provide a safe space for them to express their concerns and seek help,” she says. Coping strategies and moving forward For men struggling with body image issues related to social media, Dr Kedar suggests several strategies. "First, they should validate information by consulting trusted medical resources or doctors before adopting specific diets or supplements. Open communication with parents, doctors, and trainers is essential to ensuring informed decisions. Having someone to guide or intervene early can prevent problems from escalating." Dr Pallavi suggests that “reducing passive browsing time and critically analysing content can help diminish the influence of unrealistic portrayals. It’s also crucial to appreciate one’s unique qualities and avoid toxic comparisons.” Ultimately, body image issues are not just a superficial concern; they can significantly impact one’s mental health. As both experts and individuals like Kevin and Aryan suggest, the key is to foster an environment of self-acceptance, critical thinking, and open dialogue about the pressures created by social media. By doing so, men can work toward developing a healthier relationship with their bodies, both on and off social media.

19 November,2024 07:37 PM IST | Mumbai | Joy Manikumar
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Here’s why Coldplay Ahmedabad concert is expected to be a grand spectacle

With an estimated audience turnout of 1,00,000, British band Coldplay is set for what is being claimed their biggest gig ever. They will perform at Narendra Modi Stadium in Ahmedabad on January 25 and 26, 2025. The organisers of the show, which is a part of the band's India leg of "Music Of The Spheres World Tour", believe that it could possibly be the spectacle of the decade and reaffirm Coldplay's global appeal.  The band, which consists of lead vocalist Chris Martin, guitarist Jonny Buckland, bassist Guy Berryman, drummer and percussionist Will Champion, and manager Phil Harvey, has always been known for their immersive live shows where they blend visual artistry with iconic music. The experience is expected to be several notches up at the Ahmedabad show as the band's global and Indian production partners work to create a dazzling spectacle. Giant LED screens, synchronised lighting, immersive projections, stage effects and high-quality sound systems will ensure that fans, no matter where their seat is, have an intimate and powerful connection to the music. The concert is going to be a celebration of Gujarat's cultural openness and modern infrastructure, and a testament to Ahmedabad's growth as a cultural and entertainment hub. Also Read: Planning to attend Coldplay Ahmedabad concert? Here are 5 places to visit in the city The city's hospitality sector is also gearing up for the influx of concert-goers. There are reports that hotels around the venue have either been sold out or rates are sky-rocketing around the concert dates. The organisers are expecting a huge rush from locals as well as loyal fans from across the country to attend the event in Ahmedabad. Coldplay Ahmedabad concert tickets sold out within minutes The tickets for the Coldplay Ahmedabad concert on January 25, 2025, went live at 12 PM on Saturday. The queue for the ticket ran into lakhs and the show was sold out within minutes. Repeating what had happened during the Mumbai concert ticket sales, BookMyShow announced another show in Ahmedabad on January 26, 2025. About Narendra Modi Stadium, Ahmedabad With a seating capacity of 1,32,000, Narendra Modi Stadium in Ahmedabad is the world's largest cricket stadium. Originally constructed in 1982, it underwent a huge makeover and was renamed in 2021. The venue is famous for hosting the 2023 Men's ODI World Cup Final.  (With inputs from PTI)

18 November,2024 07:50 PM IST | Ahmedabad | mid-day online correspondent
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Grammy-award winning EDM star Zedd to perform in India in March 2025

German DJ, producer and EDM star Zedd is bringing his globally acclaimed Telos Tour 2025 to India, with two performances scheduled in Bengaluru and Delhi-NCR. He will perform in Bengaluru on March 6, 2025 and in Delhi-NCR on March 7, 2025. Zedd will deliver his signature blend of electronic and house music, creating an evening filled with high-energy beats, captivating visuals and the immersive soundscapes that have made him one of the most influential figures in electronic music. With chart-topping hits like ‘Clarity’, ‘Stay The Night’, ‘Spectrum’ and ‘The Middle’, the artist has made a place for himself with his signature sound and genre-blending production. He is also known for his innovative collaborations with pop stars like Ariana Grande, Katy Perry, Selena Gomez and Maren Morris. Zedd's album 'Telos' has also been nominated for 67th Grammy Awards in the 'Best Dance/Electronic Album' category.  Speaking on the upcoming shows in India, Zedd stated, “The energy of the Indian crowd is truly one of a kind, and I’ve always felt an incredible connection with my fans here. These two shows promise to be filled with unforgettable moments and I can’t wait to share my music and passion with everyone. See you soon, India!” Karan Singh, CEO, Sunburn, added, “We are beyond thrilled to welcome Zedd to perform two mindblowing shows in India. His influence and contribution to the electronic music landscape is truly unmatched and we’re confident that his unique beats and infectious energy will leave fans wanting more.” The tickets for the shows will go live on November 20, 2024 at 12 PM on BookMyShow. Show details March 6, 2025 - Manpho Convention Center, Bengaluru March 7, 2025 - Huda Gymkhana, Sector 29, Gurugram

18 November,2024 04:33 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondent
Dr Jane Goodall DBE gave the concluding address on ‘Reasons For Hope’. Photo Courtesy: Literature Live! The Mumbai Litfest

Mumbai Litfest ends with inspiring closing address by Dr Jane Goodall, awards

The 15th Literature Live! The Mumbai Litfest ended with a standing ovation followed by an inspiring concluding address on ‘Reasons For Hope’ by the world famous ethologist, primatologist and UN Messenger for Peace Dr Jane Goodall DBE. The winners of the Godrej Literature Live! Literary Awards for fiction, non-fiction and business were also announced. Celebrating its 15th unbroken year, the Litfest held over three days at the NCPA in Nariman Point was a resounding success. It had 125 participants from 11 countries participated in 36 engrossing and packed sessions, ranging from poetry, fiction, travel, AI, music, sports, entertainment, spirituality, food history, business, memoirs, and the celebration of Marathi receiving classical language status. In addition, the joyous Little Festival, galvanising international performances, workshops, book launches, poetry in the park and open mic sessions drew almost 20,000 visitors thronging to the charming seaside venue across three days.   The Little Festival for ages 8-14 held in parallel with its own set of imaginatively curated sessions workshops and performances, had the NCPA campus ringing to the voices and laughter of more than 2,500 children. The Festival’s Literary awards, considered prestigious and eagerly awaited annually, are one of the highlights of the Litfest. They aim to recognise and encourage literary talent among both established and new writers.  The winners of the Godrej Literature Live! Literary Awards are as follows:  Godrej Literature Live! Fiction Book of the Year The award in this category went jointly to History’s Angel by Anjum Hasan (Bloomsbury India) and The Memoirs of Valmiki Rao by Lindsay Pereira (Penguin Random House India) Godrej Literature Live! Non-Fiction Book of the Year Intertidal: A Coast and Marsh Diary by Yuvan Aves (Bloomsbury India) Godrej Literature Live! Fiction Best First Book  Hurda by Atharva Pandit (Bloomsbury India) Godrej Literature Live! Non-Fiction Best First Book From Phansi Yard: My Year with the Women of Yerawada by Sudha Bharadwaj (Juggernaut Books) Godrej Literature Live! Business Book of the Year  The Learning Trap: How Byju’s Took Indian Edtech for a Ride by Pradip K. Saha (Juggernaut Books) Bloomsbury was named Publisher of the Year   The Sultan Padamsee Playwriting Award was also announced. It was won by Meera Sitaraman for her play 'All That Matters'.   Juries for the Literary Awards 2024 Fiction:Deepa Adhikari, Social Entrepreneur and Development Communications ConsultantPriyanka Sarkar, Editor, Translator and WriterRajrishi Singhal, Author, Journalist, Banker and Policy Analyst / ConsultantUsha Subramaniam, Former Professor of English Literature and Freelance CommentatorShireen Mistry, Associate Festival Director, Literature Live! The Mumbai Litfest   Non-Fiction:Abhay Sardesai, Editor, Educator, Writer and TranslatorChandrahas Choudhury, Writer and AuthorKalpana Sharma, Journalist, Columnist and AuthorSudhakar Solomonraj, Professor, Author and EnvironmentalistTina Nagpaul, Filmmaker and Associate Festival Director, Literature Live! The Mumbai Litfest Business:Charles Assisi, Journalist, Columnist, Author and EntrepreneurKarthi Marshan, Industry Leader, Entrepreneur and CopywriterSaira Menezes, Editor and JournalistSunita Wazir, HR and Leadership Development Professional Suresh Seshadri, Editor, Journalist and Business Professional

18 November,2024 03:00 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondent
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Prefer work from home? Study decodes its pros and cons for Indian companies

The ability to hire employees from spatially-dispersed locations may help to promote more balanced geographical development, in addition to alleviating pressures of various kinds on major metropolitan areas in India, according to a study by apex business chamber CII and the Faculty of Management Studies (FMS), Delhi, on Monday. The study, titled ‘Work-from-Home: Benefits and Costs: an Exploratory Study in the Indian Context’, stated that Covid has given rise to many alternative systems, and work from home is a prominent outcome altering the employment ecosystem. Since then, many organisations have adopted remote and hybrid work practices. The study found that the new model has led to moderate savings in office rental costs and enabled a moderate reduction in costs involved in meeting and working with clients. “The savings in employee commuting and accommodation costs have allowed for adjustments in employee compensation structures to a limited extent,” the findings showed. There is significant reduction in commuting stress for employees leading to greater energy levels. However, the study also found that working from home has led to less effective communication and that remote working is detrimental to teamwork. It suggests that remote working could hinder the development and sustenance of organisational culture. As far as the costs and benefits for employees are concerned, respondents were of the view that remote working is particularly beneficial for parents with young children and for caregivers. A moderate increase in employee productivity has also been observed. However, some respondents have reported difficulty in separating work and personal life, leading to increased stress, the study pointed out. Many employees also lack dedicated, undisturbed workspaces at home. Besides, flexibility in scheduling can be considerably problematic for those unable to maintain self-discipline. The study further observed that traditional supervision methods such as attendance monitoring have become less effective. Remote working has led to a shift towards performance-based monitoring in a major way. Furthermore, with remote working, increased reliance on trust has become necessary to ensure employee performance. On the macro environment front, the study suggested that remote working has led to significant reduction in the company’s carbon footprint and could held organizations meet ESG (environment, social and governance) goals. “While work-from-home confers tangible benefits for both employers and employees in the short term, it may, however, lead to some losses in the long run. These losses may be intangible in nature, relating to the formation and sustenance of social, emotional, and human capital,” the study noted. Also Read: From ‘office peacocking’ to ‘career cushioning’: Here are 6 workplace buzzwords you need to know in 2024 This story has been sourced from a third party syndicated feed, agencies. Mid-day accepts no responsibility or liability for its dependability, trustworthiness, reliability and data of the text. Mid-day management/mid-day.com reserves the sole right to alter, delete or remove (without notice) the content in its absolute discretion for any reason whatsoever

18 November,2024 01:30 PM IST | Mumbai | IANS
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