He stopped talking because I lied about my whereabouts

He stopped talking because I lied about my whereabouts

Dear Diana,
I'm in love with a boy from the same caste and he also loves me. I am a divorcee so he says he won't marry me. I understand his problem. He is not going to marry any other girl also. Our affair started in 2008 that time my husband was there with me but he was not staying with me. And my boyfriendu00a0 was my friend that time. I broke up with my husband in June 2008 because he used to beat me. My boyfriend has stopped talking to me just because I lied to him about my whereabouts. Anyways, I don't behave like other girls, na. I cannot stay

Name withheld on request

Dear Friend,
Well, here's a very silly premise for a lovers' tiff. In any case, your reasons for leaving your husband were valid. Your boyfriend's reason for not wanting to commit to a marriage is downright stupid. To top it all with an argument that you lied about your whereabouts makes him come across as someone really, really insecure.It's very juvenile that he should behave this way despite knowing what you've gone through and what he has put you through. And you can live without talking to him. Chill!

Nazar se duur... dil se duur?

Dear Diana,
My guy and I haven't met for a month now. We only talk on the phone. Whenever we talk he's always busy. He keeps postponing our meetings. I feel lonely without him. Will this long time apart, create problems for us?

Yamini

Dear Yamini,
He's just tarrying the inevitable. Ask him very clearly if he intends to break up with you. And if he is, to be a man and tell you himself. Why else would he not want to meet you? Ask yourself if it is worth waiting for him. He can't possibly have the same excuse every time. Land up where you know he'll be and surprise him by coming to meet him without warning.

Have an affair with my girlfriend?

Dear Diana,
I am 23, own a shop and have a girlfriend who got married six months ago. We've been having an affair for two years now. I still want her to be in my life. She's staying abroad and wants a partner to stay with her all day. She is also not physically satisfied with her husband. What should I do?

Name withheld on request

Dear Friend,
Well, here's the thing, go abroad and you aren't self-employed. You'll have to start from scratch just to be with her. Is it worth leaving everything you have to be with someone you love but cannot marry. Will you content simply being her sex toy? Don't degrade yourself to that level.