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I blew my parent's money to have fun. I feel useless...
Dear Diana,
I am 18, and was a perfectly happy teenager before I joined college. My parents had to make a donation to get me into engineering college. I thought about having a little fun and blew it all. My life has now come to a standstill. In a month's time, everybody will know that I flunked my first year. I will have to waste another year at home. this depresses me. Moreover, my parents are suffering from poor health. News of me failing my exams will take a toll on their health. I love them. The the thought of killing myself popped up... the thought that I have wasted their hardearned money still haunts me... I feel useless and angry with my self. I don't know what to do with myself. i'm a good-for-nothing loser.
asdy
Dear Friend,
Everyone makes mistakes. And we learn from those mistakes. You can'tchange what you did but you work toward rectifying the situation by working hard and doing well from now on. They will be disappointed to learn of what you've done, but will forgive you in due course. Make it a point to be diligent in studies from now on. And don't let them down anymore.
She wants to return to my life
Dear Diana,
My first girlfriend (of two years) left me for a stud-type guy. They went around for three years before breaking up over something trivial. Now she wants me to take her back. But I have already moved on. What do I tell her?
Hardip
Dear Hardip,
It's quite simple, really. Don't answer her calls or her messages. If she doesn't get the hint and still tries to get in touch with you, tell it to her like it is. She ought to understand that she can't use you as her rebound guy just because you once shared a relationship.
He's a bundle of contradictions
Dear Diana,
I've been in a relationship for the past four months. He really loves me. But sometimes, I don't understand him. I slapped him twice, without any logical reason. He is willing to marry with me, bt his parents are creating problems. He isn't forward-thinking. We fight a lot and have shorttempers. But he's well educated and has secure job. He has a nice character but he's not romentic at all.
Sapna Singh
Dear Sapna,
Does it help if you're really confused as to where this relationship is headed? I'd say re-evaluate where you stand and what you're looking for from this guy. Do you see yourself settling into a marital rut just because of his good traits. Or would you rather wait it out and see how it pans out. It doesn't help that his parents aren't particularly fond of you. It also doesn't bode well if both parties have egos and tempers to boot. And without even a wee bit of romance, where's the fun in being married? | 
